UNBIASED THOUGHT

“Pay Close attention in conversation to what is being said, and to what follows from any action. In the action, immediately look for the targets, in words, listen closely to what’s being signalled.” – Marcus Aurelius, Meditations, 7.4

THROUGH the work of the psychologist Albert Ellis, Stoicism has reached millions of people through what’s known as cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT). As a form of therapy, CBT helps patients identify destructive patterns in their thoughts and behaviour so they can, over time, direct and influence them in a more positive direction.

Of course, Marcus Aurelius had no formal training in psychology, but his words here are as important as any doctor’s. He’s asking you to become an observer of your own thoughts and the actions those thoughts provoke. Where do they come from? What biases do they contain? Are they constructive or destructive? Do they cause you to make mistakes or engage in behaviour you later regret? Look for patterns; find where cause meets effect.

Only when this is done can negative behaviour patterns be broken; only then can real life improvements be made.