YOU MAY KNOW NOT
HE was a deeply unpleasant man. He brought out the worst in many people. It was clear to see.
One day I asked him to tell me about his childhood and he ridiculed the idea that there was anything to be learned that way. Then he agreed to tell me one story of no importance or significance.
While emphasising its irrelevance, he told me the one thing that explained everything about him. My heart still breaks when I think of the loss he so flippantly described.
It reminded me of the words Henry Wadsworth Longfellow wrote in “Hyperion: A Romance”:
“Every heart has its secret sorrows, which the world knows not, and oftentimes we call a man cold, when he is only sad.”
UNCREDITED WORDS OF WISDOM
“Some stranger somewhere still remembers you were kind to them when no-one else was.”
Those are uncredited words of wisdom read on the internet.
The sentence will probably mean different things to different people in circumstances known to them. But it reminds me of a man I met in a church café. He insisted we’d met before, even though I had no recollection of it. He told me he was doing well, working, of good health, and much happier. It was good to hear, but I was still wary.
“That was a powerful talk we had back then. Those words made the difference,” he told me.
“Remind me,” I prompted, still unsure of him.
“You said, ‘Just because you’re down doesn’t mean you’re out’. I remembered those words and built on them over the years. You gave me hope.”
Not such profound words that they actually stayed with me, but they would have been honestly meant. Whatever kindness was contained in them meant they could go on and do their work after I had left.

